A few turn-ons?

[VxM Edgeworth]

As to Fuyu-san's thread about the turn-offs, let's go a bit more friendly. Of course, this helps us know you a bit better as well. So, to start this off right, what are some turn-ons for you? It matters not of your sexual preference either. I mean, they don't have to be sexual. If it's too personal, I understand. Now that that's out of the way, let's get onto business, shall we? Starting with me first!

Glasses. I love women with stylish lenswear, or a nice pair of "specs". Glasses jusst make them look more intelligent and a bit nerdy. And if you don't know, nerdy girls are cool beans.

Personality. The word holds many merits. I'll start off by saying this, "As long as we can connect in any way, we are one until we stop." Personality can go as far as your sense of style within clothing, housing, or whatever, your hobbies, et cetera. It just gives you more "thumbs up" for having individuality.

Ditto on the interests category. Now, I'm sure everyone here knows what "ditto" means, right? If you don't, it means "the same". And for future references, you're welcome! Anyways, a girl with similar interests means that there's a full road of adventure for us. If we can play Call of Duty with each other and one of us loses and shows good sportsmanship or friendly trash-talk and laugh about it, we're okay, then. I for one like anime and video games. If we can plan nights where we can game or watch anime together, then that's about all I need to think about a future wedding. Lol. Okay, I won't get carried away...

I think this is enough to get us started. If anyone would like to know more, feel free to ask me through that nice, little private messaging system that RSF had wonderfully given us. Of course, no girl really needs to meet these expectations; well, not all of them. Why? Well, it's kind of impossible to find someone exactly as how you like them to be. That's the fun part in dating, I suppose. But alas, no one thinks or operates like moi.

[Fuyumine]

Ha! Have to agree with you on the glasses, dude. Women in glasses are hot. Not sure why. But once a girl throws on a pair of specs, she just looks infinitely hotter. Inexplicably hotter.

If a girl can actually make me laugh, that is a major effin' plus. I'm usually the "silly" one when it comes to relationships, always having the lighten things up with a joke here and there. But if she can do it, too...? Sheee... I think I might have met my soul mate.

Confidence is also a big plus. And not just in the way she carries herself. But a girl who knows exactly what it is she wants. I freakin' love that.

[Sephiroth]

also you need a girl who is a little kinky xD xD xD

also a girl who is willing to do stuff unlike those fridged chicks god damn

[Fuyumine]

LOL well, that's pretty much a given, really. Like, before I get serious into the relationship, I tend to occasionally prod the sex topic to see where her head is at. If she doesn't seem like she's going to be as weird as I am, then... it probably won't work out, unfortunately.

Regardless of how loyal I claim to be to my lovers, I know that if I hooked up with someone who was terrible in bed, the chances of me cheating on them would increase. And cheating just isn't my nature, so I'd rather nip that in the bud while I can.

Jesus, that seems shallow.

[Doaj]

Hardly. I've been with girls who have interests that I don't (Biting...just seems too vampire to me and it was awkward and unappealing). I've also had interests that girls weren't interested in, which is more awkward for me, and lame. I've been called weird and avoided 'cause this girl found out something I'm into, and it was like, Why the fuck do you care? You asked...

Anyway, I'll list some of my appropriate turn ons...

Dark. I like a girl to have dark hair, dark eyes, dark skin, and a dark attitude. I think it's prettier when a girl has dark features because it covers up skin blemishes more.

Intelligence. I can't really stand to be with a girl that isn't insanely intelligent. Girls that are average and beautiful are only average to me.

Oral Fixation. I like a girl's mouth. Her lips, her tongue, her saliva. If a girl doesn't thoroughly enjoy kissing, then she isn't going to like things that are more intimate, and rules out too many preferences.

I have plenty more, but I think I'll cut it off here.

[Fuyumine]

Hardly. I've been with girls who have interests that I don't (Biting...just seems too vampire to me and it was awkward and unappealing). I've also had interests that girls weren't interested in, which is more awkward for me, and lame. I've been called weird and avoided 'cause this girl found out something I'm into, and it was like, Why the fuck do you care? You asked...

Anyway, I'll list some of my appropriate turn ons...

Dark. I like a girl to have dark hair, dark eyes, dark skin, and a dark attitude. I think it's prettier when a girl has dark features because it covers up skin blemishes more.

Intelligence. I can't really stand to be with a girl that isn't insanely intelligent. Girls that are average and beautiful are only average to me.

Oral Fixation. I like a girl's mouth. Her lips, her tongue, her saliva. If a girl doesn't thoroughly enjoy kissing, then she isn't going to like things that are more intimate, and rules out too many preferences.

I have plenty more, but I think I'll cut it off here.

LOL Uh oh... were you about to get a little graphic there, Doaj-y? xD

[Casanova]

Nerdy chicks are hot. Glasses FTW. I'd like to find a girl that can make me laugh, I've always been the joker in relationships.

It's not much of a turn-on, but one of the things that will keep me interested in a girl is if she can make decisions. I hate indecisive girls who don't know what they want to do, and are just completely happy to float around and do nothing, then blame you for being bored. Please, girls, tell us what you want to do, tell us EXACTLY how you want it done, and we'll tell you if it's possible. Relationships would just be so much easier if both parties were blunt with each other when it comes to doing stuff together.

[Doaj]

LOL Uh oh... were you about to get a little graphic there, Doaj-y? xD

You know me too well.

It's not much of a turn-on, but one of the things that will keep me interested in a girl is if she can make decisions. I hate indecisive girls who don't know what they want to do, and are just completely happy to float around and do nothing, then blame you for being bored. Please, girls, tell us what you want to do, tell us EXACTLY how you want it done, and we'll tell you if it's possible. Relationships would just be so much easier if both parties were blunt with each other when it comes to doing stuff together.

See, I'm almost exactly the opposite. I don't think I've ever been with a single girl that did know how to make a decision. Even now, Tera will change her mind a dozen times and the most insignificant detail. Doesn't bother me- I'm the same way.

[Fuyumine]

Nerdy chicks are hot. Glasses FTW. I'd like to find a girl that can make me laugh, I've always been the joker in relationships.

It's not much of a turn-on, but one of the things that will keep me interested in a girl is if she can make decisions. I hate indecisive girls who don't know what they want to do, and are just completely happy to float around and do nothing, then blame you for being bored. Please, girls, tell us what you want to do, tell us EXACTLY how you want it done, and we'll tell you if it's possible. Relationships would just be so much easier if both parties were blunt with each other when it comes to doing stuff together.

You know, I think this is universal for all genders. I used to think that it was just women that had an affinity for men that knew how to make decisions, but then after hooking up with my ex, I realized that I was pretty much the same way. It irked me just as much as it irked her that she couldn't make up her mind on something like ... where to eat dinner, or what movie to see.

[dthc]

Turn-ons... hm...
Well, I generally like people that look delicate. Bret's a pretty fragile little guy and I wouldn't have it any other way. He's like a little porcelain doll.
His glasses aid the delicate vibe and they frame his face really well and and and...
Argh.
Starting over.
Turn-ons:

Ok, done.

I've been called weird and avoided 'cause this girl found out something I'm into, and it was like, Why the fuck do you care? You asked...

It's not like you're discrete or not awkward about it though. You just have bad social timing.

I have plenty more, but I think I'll cut it off here.

So true. On his Literotica profile instead of a list it just says pretty much everything.

Tera will change her mind a dozen times and the most insignificant detail. Doesn't bother me- I'm the same way.

Not every detail.... I make some decisions.

[Fuyumine]

turn-ons... Hm...
Well, i generally like people that look delicate. Bret's a pretty fragile little guy and i wouldn't have it any other way. He's like a little porcelain doll.
His glasses aid the delicate vibe and they frame his face really well and and and...
Argh.
Starting over.
Turn-ons:

ok, done.

awwww!

[DK Dong]

I won't get into too much detail here.

Kind-heartedness. Yay for people who care and are pleasant.
Tolerance. Yay for people who don't judge and are open-minded.
Smile/sense of humor. Yay for people with a personality.

Physically, I'm not particular. A certain level of attraction needs to be present, but one thing doesn't seem to matter to me.

[Fuyumine]

I won't get into too much detail here.

Kind-heartedness. Yay for people who care and are pleasant.
Tolerance. Yay for people who don't judge and are open-minded.
Smile/sense of humor. Yay for people with a personality.

Physically, I'm not particular. A certain level of attraction needs to be present, but one thing doesn't seem to matter to me.

Ahhh... the simple things in life. Pretty cool list.

What's sad is that most of these positives often comes with a batch of negatives called "CRAZY!"

[Nami]

Ok... this thread will be even harder for me to be specific without really being specific. Here goes:

Physical Aspects
This is where I can't get too specific. I love a combination of green eyes/black hair. This is a combination I have not seen occurring naturally in decades. I wonder if that combination still exists. There are some people with Waardenburg Syndrome that turn out to be really, really beautiful. Seriously. If I was told I had to pick a "disease", I'd opt to have Waardenburg Syndrome. Example:


Basically I like variety in appearances. Red hair is pretty desirable as well... physically speaking, anyway. Red and jet-black are probably tied as my two favorite hair colors, followed by brunette, "regular" black, this peculiar dyed color that looks to be a hue of purple (I'd have to find a picture), and blonde in last place. Then again, it depends on the person. It is how all the features go together that is alluring. I have seen some extremely sexy blondes... though normally I find blonde to be the least attractive natural hair color.

I love eyes. Almond shaped eyes are almost impossible to not adore. Lips... I love full lips. I have full lips. I need to be able to kiss comfortably. Button noses are cute... I'm not normally fond of the more tapered noses. I have several sets of the ideal physical archetype in my mind... and it has little to do with how slim or wide a person is.

Smooth skin is sexy. Some people seem like they are born with baby smooth skin (such as a certain immediate relative of mine... I wish I would've inherited it, damnit).

Ya know... I think I'd better stop here. I'm not good at being vague.

[Fuyumine]

You know, I never really understood people who were obsessed with folks with red hair... until I saw someone with red hair that was just drop dead gorgeous. I was like "Holy crap... now I see what everyone else sees..."

Also, Irish girls are hot.

[BirriaDS]

Japanese girls >.>

Girls that wear absolutely no make up.

Girls that dress in jeans and T-shirt.

The Punk/Emo look >.>

only ones I remember now <.<

[Fuyumine]

Japanese girls >.>

Girls that wear absolutely no make up.

Girls that dress in jeans and T-shirt.

The Punk/Emo look >.>

only ones I remember now <.<

LOL Ironically, I find girls that wear stuff like... sweat pants and a white tee shirt and no make up to be their prettiest. I can't explain to you what the hell it is, either. But that seems to be the sentiment of a lot of dudes, I've noticed. My cousin told me the other day that there is a song on the radio mentioning it. LOL

[BirriaDS]

Yea...I think it's because, girls wear make up aaallllll the time so when we see them without make up we go....^^

[A Bit Obtuse]

Redheads: I love redheads. I wish I was a natural redhead myself, but sadly I must stick to just dying it that way. Every time I see a redhead, I want to pet them and not in the dirty way haha.

Tattoos: I don't mean just any tattoos. I love big, beautiful and colorful tattoos. Most of all I love the stories behind tattoos. I believe every tattoo should have a story behind it.

Indie/Foreign Movies: I like talking to people who are interesting in watching weird movies like I do. I especially love it when someone is willing to sit down and watch some weird ass Indie or Foreign flick with me, that's always the best.

Strong Women: I don't mean like physically strong like body builder type of thing. I mean women who carry themselves well, and just have this air of dominance. Also when they just don't give a damn about anything anyone says to them, they just do what they want.
I mean, I like that in men too it's rare to see that in women. Most just want to play the helpless princess looking for a knight in shining armor and that act is just getting so old. Time to do something new girls.

[Fuyumine]

Tattoos: I don't mean just any tattoos. I love big, beautiful and colorful tattoos. Most of all I love the stories behind tattoos. I believe every tattoo should have a story behind it.

I can't imagine someone being into tattoos as you are, seeing someone with a big, colorful tattoo and then asking them their story behind it, only to hear: "Oh, I just thought it was cool." That would have to be one of the biggest let-downs, ever. LOL.